There is always a first for things and having your first anal experience is one that should not be taken lightly. There are a lot of things that can go wrong if you are not prepared for it and when they do go wrong, it can be life changing to say the least. Of course, if you take the time to do it right it can be an eye opening experience and you will more than likely highly enjoy it. First thing you have to understand is that it isn’t for everyone and not all people enjoy it.

When you get to where you are ready to try your first anal experience you should probably discuss in length what it is you are expecting and what your partner is expecting from it. It’s always good to be able to discuss things like this and having that open communication with your partner is very important when it comes to something like anal experimentation. You should be able to sit down and go over every aspect of what is going to happen so that there is no misunderstanding between the two of you and you are both fully aware of what to expect.

The next thing to prepare for your first anal experience is that you have plenty of lubricant handy. There is nothing worse than trying to do anal for the first time and not having any or enough lubricant with you. Nothing says pain more than having something forcibly slid into your ass that is dry. It’s enough to make a grown man cry and I am sure that plenty have, even if they are the ones trying to slide their cocks into an ass that isn’t lubed well enough. Not only will it be painful for the woman it is sliding into but it has a tendency to pull on the skin of the male also.

When you first set out for your first anal moment you should know that lots and lots of foreplay is needed to make the female you are with “loosen” up enough. You don’t want to just throw her down and ram it in as you could not only cause damage to her but to you as well. It’s not always like you see in the porn movies. Porn movies have hours of stuff they don’t film where the woman is getting ready for the anal scene and you should keep that in mind. YOUR scene will be REAL, not fantasy.